Episodes
Episodes



Friday Apr 07, 2023
Ep 50: Worth Protecting - our take on the gun debate --
Friday Apr 07, 2023
Friday Apr 07, 2023
The Finchers explain their understanding of the gun debate. They’re in rare form as they explain who is worth protecting, who gets to decide what tools we need, and how word games have twisted the clear path all responsible adults should take.
Show notes: Thunder Ranch with Clint a nd Heidi Smith.
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If you have a topic of question for us or interest in Dale speaking at your event, email hello@dalefincher.com or hello@jonalynfincher.com
Find Dale and Jonalyn online:
Jonalyn on Instagram: @jonalyn_fincher
Dale on Instagram: @ChartingLiberty
Jonalyn’s original paintings and blog: jonalynfincher.com
Dale’s website: dalefincher.com
Find our books on Amazon: Living with Questions, Ruby Slippers, Coffee Shop Conversations.
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Friday Mar 24, 2023
Ep 49: Two Big Announcements --
Friday Mar 24, 2023
Friday Mar 24, 2023
Dale and Jonalyn share what is ahead for their family and Dale’s new transition on social media. They share more of their personal backstory of how they got here too. Favorite line: “You need to chase your dreams as much as you wish for others to chase theirs.”
** Show notes: Patrick Cairnes, Betrayal Bond . Dale's PCC Videos on Vimeo.
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Get your Stories of Jesus for the Modern Family at dalefincher.com.
If you have a topic of question for us or interest in Dale speaking at your event, email hello@dalefincher.com or hello@jonalynfincher.com
Find Dale and Jonalyn online:
Jonalyn on Instagram: @jonalyn_fincher
Dale on Instagram: @ChartingLiberty
Jonalyn’s original paintings and blog: jonalynfincher.com
Dale’s website: dalefincher.com
Find our books on Amazon: Living with Questions, Ruby Slippers, Coffee Shop Conversations.
Subscribe to Back Porch with Dale and Jonalyn on Soundwise



Friday Mar 17, 2023
Ep 48: Love, Abuse and Forgiveness --
Friday Mar 17, 2023
Friday Mar 17, 2023
You’ll hear the Finchers respond to a recent question, “If Paul says love keeps no record of wrongs, does that mean we forget wrongs?” Dale and Jonalyn explain how amnesia is not next to godliness. And they explain what love and forgiveness actually mean and how getting them wrong leads to more abuses. Favorite line: “Love creates a safe space to face the truth of things.”
Show notes: Get Stories of Jesus for the Modern Family (details at dalefincher.com). Listen in order or jump to sections of Jesus teachings that have always puzzled you.
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Get your Stories of Jesus for the Modern Family at dalefincher.com.
If you have a topic of question for us or interest in Dale speaking at your event, email hello@dalefincher.com or hello@jonalynfincher.com
Find Dale and Jonalyn online:
Jonalyn on Instagram: @jonalyn_fincher
Dale on Instagram: @voiceofthe2nd
Jonalyn’s original paintings and blog: jonalynfincher.com
Dale’s website: dalefincher.com
Find our books on Amazon: Living with Questions, Ruby Slippers, Coffee Shop Conversations.
Subscribe to Back Porch with Dale and Jonalyn on Soundwise



Friday Mar 10, 2023
Ep 47: Faith is Believing What Ain’t So and Other Myths --
Friday Mar 10, 2023
Friday Mar 10, 2023
Mark Twain said, "Faith is believing what you know ain't so." His quote from over a century ago would fit perfectly into today's society. Dale and Jonalyn share how many false definitions of “faith” have gotten into our water. They start with Twain and finish by connecting faith to friendship. Favorite quote: “If you get faith wrong, you cut yourself off from everyone, not just God.”
Show notes:
Coffee Shop Conversations: Making the Most of Spiritual Small Talk by Dale Fincher and Jonalyn Fincher. See "Lost words" section for more about "faith" and a few other important words we care about.
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Get your Stories of Jesus for the Modern Family at dalefincher.com.
If you have a topic of question for us or interest in Dale speaking at your event, email hello@dalefincher.com.
Find Dale and Jonalyn online:
Jonalyn on Instagram: @jonalyn_fincher
Dale on Instagram: @voiceofthe2nd
Jonalyn’s original paintings and blog: jonalynfincher.com
Dale’s website: dalefincher.com
Find our books on Amazon: Living with Questions, Ruby Slippers, Coffee Shop Conversations.
Subscribe to Back Porch with Dale and Jonalyn on Soundwise



Friday Mar 03, 2023
Ep 46: I Don’t Want to Forgive and Forget --
Friday Mar 03, 2023
Friday Mar 03, 2023
Get ready to rethink everything you’ve heard about FORGIVENESS. Dale explains the obligations and conditions for forgiveness. Jonalyn shares how forgiving and forgetting isn’t even Biblical. And together they talk about forgiveness as a strategy for something even bigger. Favorite line: “You can heal without forgiving. And you can forgive without healing.”
Show notes: Read Matthew 18.
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Get your Stories of Jesus for the Modern Family at dalefincher.com.
If you have a topic of question for us or interest in Dale speaking at your event, email hello@dalefincher.com.
Find Dale and Jonalyn online:
Jonalyn on Instagram: @jonalyn_fincher
Dale on Instagram: @voiceofthe2nd
Jonalyn’s original paintings and blog: jonalynfincher.com
Dale’s website: dalefincher.com
Find our books on Amazon: Living with Questions, Ruby Slippers, Coffee Shop Conversations.
Subscribe to Back Porch with Dale and Jonalyn on Soundwise



Friday Feb 17, 2023
Ep 45: How to Address Oppression Narrative --
Friday Feb 17, 2023
Friday Feb 17, 2023
In this part two on Persecution, the Fincher duo explains the benefits people reap when they claim to be oppressed. Dale lists six perks you receive when you trade your agency for persecution and wear the victim mask. You’ll also get an fresh take on the Romans 13 passage on submission to authority and why cults always claim to be oppressed.
Show notes:
Dale's "PCC Videos"
Book recommendation: Co-dependence: Misunderstood -- Mistreated by Anne Wilson Schaef
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Get your Stories of Jesus for the Modern Family at dalefincher.com.
If you have a topic of question for us or interest in Dale speaking at your event, email hello@dalefincher.com.
Find Dale and Jonalyn online:
Jonalyn on Instagram: @jonalyn_fincher
Dale on Instagram: @voiceofthe2nd
Jonalyn’s original paintings and blog: jonalynfincher.com
Dale’s website: dalefincher.com
Find our books on Amazon: Living with Questions, Ruby Slippers, Coffee Shop Conversations.
Subscribe to Back Porch with Dale and Jonalyn on Soundwise



Friday Feb 10, 2023
Ep 44: Does This Count as Persecution? --
Friday Feb 10, 2023
Friday Feb 10, 2023
Find out the difference between suffering for a foolish life as a Christian and suffering for Jesus’ sake in this inspiring episode. You’ll find how persecution is misused and why it’s so different. Favorite line: “So many choose the appearance of persecution because of the luxuries and prestige it brings.”
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Get your Stories of Jesus for the Modern Family at dalefincher.com.
If you have a topic of question for us or interest in Dale speaking at your event, email hello@dalefincher.com.
Find Dale and Jonalyn online:
Jonalyn on Instagram: @jonalyn_fincher
Dale on Instagram: @voiceofthe2nd
Jonalyn’s original paintings and blog: jonalynfincher.com
Dale’s website: dalefincher.com
Find our books on Amazon: Living with Questions, Ruby Slippers, Coffee Shop Conversations.
Subscribe to Back Porch with Dale and Jonalyn on Soundwise



Friday Feb 03, 2023
Ep 43: How the World Is In Us --
Friday Feb 03, 2023
Friday Feb 03, 2023
Hear the ways the culture around us has gotten into the air we breathe. Dale and Jonalyn tease apart the Host Culture from the goodness of God’s world. You’ll find so many Host Culture ideas are in our churches, too. Favorite line: “Empathy is not an ethic--it’s just the beginning of the journey.” And watch for the new helpful phrase Dale coined “Rainbow Globalism” and why it hurts our humanity.
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Get your Stories of Jesus for the Modern Family at dalefincher.com.
If you have a topic of question for us or interest in Dale speaking at your event, email hello@dalefincher.com.
Find Dale and Jonalyn online:
Jonalyn on Instagram: @jonalyn_fincher
Dale on Instagram: @voiceofthe2nd
Jonalyn’s original paintings and blog: jonalynfincher.com
Dale’s website: dalefincher.com
Find our books on Amazon: Living with Questions, Ruby Slippers, Coffee Shop Conversations.
Subscribe to Back Porch with Dale and Jonalyn on Soundwise
