Back Porch with Dale and Jonalyn

Welcome to our Back Porch. We are authors and artists happily married for over 20 years, parenting two boys, and sharing glimpses of our lives with you. Lean in and listen to our unedited conversations as we share on art, parenting, politics, culture and how our Christian faith colors it all.
Welcome to our Back Porch. We are authors and artists happily married for over 20 years, parenting two boys, and sharing glimpses of our lives with you. Lean in and listen to our unedited conversations as we share on art, parenting, politics, culture and how our Christian faith colors it all.
Episodes
Episodes



Dec 12, 2025
Dec 12, 2025
53 min
In this episode, we cover a comment from a follower. The word "fellowship" is passed around church circles so much it has become a dead word or simply a synonym for small talk.
For those of you who have been following us through the years, "fellowship" could be listed as yet another of those "lost words."
But what does it mean? We unpack the meaning of fellowship and how many expect (and are disappointed) when it doesn't deliver!
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To dive more into our work as artists, visit Jonalyn's Studio (jonalynfincher.com) and Dale's Living Room Bible (livingroombible.com).
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Music credit: https://uppbeat.io/t/simon-folwar/happy-places. License code: J4YSC25BAPNBURAX



Nov 28, 2025
S3 E11: Why We Teach Our Kids Finance
Nov 28, 2025
Nov 28, 2025
56 min
How do we empower without enabling? In this episode we discuss budgets, allowance, crypto, investment strategy, and more!
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To dive more into our work as artists, visit Jonalyn's Studio (jonalynfincher.com) and Dale's Living Room Bible (livingroombible.com).
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Music credit: https://uppbeat.io/t/simon-folwar/happy-places. License code: J4YSC25BAPNBURAX



Nov 21, 2025
S3 E10: Why We Find Joy in Who We Are
Nov 21, 2025
Nov 21, 2025
45 min
In this episode, we recap Jonalyn’s recent speaking event. The conversation unfolds into how vision transforms into legacy, childless marriage, and a fantastically clear definition of masculinity/femininity.
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To dive more into our work as artists, visit Jonalyn's Studio (jonalynfincher.com) and Dale's Living Room Bible (livingroombible.com).
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Music credit: https://uppbeat.io/t/simon-folwar/happy-places. License code: J4YSC25BAPNBURAX



Nov 14, 2025
S3 E9: Why We Face Hypocrisy
Nov 14, 2025
Nov 14, 2025
54 min
Did you know about the different types of hypocrisy?
We talk of several in this episode: our own fakeness, how others set standards for us to follow or we get called "hypocrites," and the way we manipulate virtues to make our vices appear virtuous.
You'll walk away with nuggets to use for years, not only in your own growth, but also in understanding other people.
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To dive more into our work as artists, visit Jonalyn's Studio (jonalynfincher.com) and Dale's Living Room Bible (livingroombible.com).
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Music credit: https://uppbeat.io/t/simon-folwar/happy-places. License code: J4YSC25BAPNBURAX



Nov 8, 2025
S3 E8: Why We Struggle in Front of Our Kids
Nov 8, 2025
Nov 8, 2025
47 min
We have learned that struggling and wrestling with issues and ideas IN FRONT OF OUR KIDS is key to good parenting. But both parents must do it! In this episode, we share some tips and stories of what that looks like.
Show notes:
S3E2: Why We Home Educate
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To dive more into our work as artists, visit Jonalyn's Studio (jonalynfincher.com) and Dale's Living Room Bible (livingroombible.com).
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Music credit: https://uppbeat.io/t/simon-folwar/happy-places. License code: J4YSC25BAPNBURAX



Oct 30, 2025
S3 E7: Why We Think America is Codependent
Oct 30, 2025
Oct 30, 2025
1hr 6 sec
In this episode, we discuss the codependent addiction and how it masquerades as compassion in culture, politics, churches and families.
We define it, give dozens of examples and stories, and share some tools and tips on how to recover from it. This is an episode that can begin to heal the world, if we allow it.
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To dive more into our work as artists, visit Jonalyn's Studio (jonalynfincher.com) and Dale's Living Room Bible (livingroombible.com).
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Music credit: https://uppbeat.io/t/simon-folwar/happy-places. License code: J4YSC25BAPNBURAX



Oct 17, 2025
Oct 17, 2025
1hr 2 min
Learn how both of us, Jonalyn and Dale, have conversations differently. We have then in different places, in different ways, about different issues and topics. But we are still having them, following some rules we lay out in this episode.
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To dive more into our work as artists, visit Jonalyn's Studio (jonalynfincher.com) and Dale's Living Room Bible (livingroombible.com).
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Music credit: https://uppbeat.io/t/simon-folwar/happy-places. License code: J4YSC25BAPNBURAX



Oct 6, 2025
S3 E5: Why We Are Not Christian Nationalists
Oct 6, 2025
Oct 6, 2025
58 min
After our last two episodes on Charlie Kirk and the politics of Jesus, we received questions about "Christian Nationalism." Here we explain what Christian Nationalism has come to mean, some basic issues with it, the difference between a Christian culture and Christian law, and why the US Constitution is still sufficient for Christians to have freedom and justice to pursue what is good as a nation.
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To dive more into our work as artists, visit Jonalyn's Studio (jonalynfincher.com) and Dale's Living Room Bible (livingroombible.com).
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Music credit: https://uppbeat.io/t/simon-folwar/happy-places. License code: J4YSC25BAPNBURAX




