Episodes
Episodes



Thursday Aug 31, 2023
Ep 67: Rules that Break God’s People
Thursday Aug 31, 2023
Thursday Aug 31, 2023
The Finchers take questions from their audience starting off with this one about the differences between expectations and rules and laws. Hang onto your seats as Dale and Jonalyn tease apart these ideas and show how many good-sounding laws are breaking the backs of good people.
The question from a listener we cover in this episode: “Is making a rule or law that is morally good ever wrong? Is there a distinction when having expectations, rules and laws in different spaces? i.e. between family or community groups, such as schools or clubs or neighborhoods and larger communities such as countries? And then of course, God.”
Have your own question? Send it to hello@dalefincher.com.
Show Notes:
Ep 41: Hope vs Exceptions
Ep 58: The Jesus You Thought You Knew
Ep 60: Evangelism - The Art of Inviting Others into Your Life
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Get your Stories of Jesus for the Modern Family at dalefincher.com.
If you have a topic of question for us or interest in Dale speaking at your event, email hello@dalefincher.com or hello@jonalynfincher.com
Find Dale and Jonalyn online:
Back Porch on Facebook and Twitter: @Soulation
Jonalyn on Instagram: @jonalyn_fincher
Dale on Instagram and Twitter: @ChartingLiberty
Jonalyn’s original paintings and blog: jonalynfincher.com
Dale’s website: dalefincher.com
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Music credit: https://uppbeat.io/t/simon-folwar/happy-places. License code: J4YSC25BAPNBURAX
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Thursday Aug 31, 2023
Ep 66: Troubleshooting Adult Friendships
Thursday Aug 31, 2023
Thursday Aug 31, 2023
With some exciting snacks to give this episode a true laid-back flair, the Finchers explain why kids make friends quicker than adults. They share how they’ve found adult friendships to work. Two favorite lines, “We get everything we need from God but he’s not everything we need.” And “You don’t have to be sad that friendships are gone, you can be glad they happened.”
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Get your Stories of Jesus for the Modern Family at dalefincher.com.
If you have a topic of question for us or interest in Dale speaking at your event, email hello@dalefincher.com or hello@jonalynfincher.com
Follow Back Porch, now on Twitter! @soulation
Find Dale and Jonalyn online:
Jonalyn on Instagram: @jonalyn_fincher
Dale on Instagram: @ChartingLiberty
Jonalyn’s original paintings and blog: jonalynfincher.com
Dale’s website: dalefincher.com
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Music credit: https://uppbeat.io/t/simon-folwar/happy-places. License code: J4YSC25BAPNBURAX
Subscribe to Back Porch with Dale and Jonalyn on Soundwise



Friday Aug 11, 2023
Ep 65: When Politicians Misuse Scripture
Friday Aug 11, 2023
Friday Aug 11, 2023
The Finchers unpack the phrase, “My brother’s keeper,” which has been used by politicians, pastors, and influencers--from local parishes to presidents like Obama--to justify a range of political and social actions. Listen to understand why this phrase, originating from the Bible's first murderer, is poor reason for any policy. Favorite line: “This verse has been used to justify control over things that don’t belong to us.”
Show notes: Ep 4: Do We Have a Right to Privacy?
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Get your Stories of Jesus for the Modern Family at dalefincher.com.
If you have a topic of question for us or interest in Dale speaking at your event, email hello@dalefincher.com or hello@jonalynfincher.com
Follow Back Porch, now on Twitter! @soulation
Find Dale and Jonalyn online:
Jonalyn on Instagram: @jonalyn_fincher
Dale on Instagram: @ChartingLiberty
Jonalyn’s original paintings and blog: jonalynfincher.com
Dale’s website: dalefincher.com
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Music credit: https://uppbeat.io/t/simon-folwar/happy-places. License code: J4YSC25BAPNBURAX
Subscribe to Back Porch with Dale and Jonalyn on Soundwise



Friday Jul 28, 2023
Ep 64: Stop Calling It Selfish
Friday Jul 28, 2023
Friday Jul 28, 2023
The Finchers tease apart SELFISHNESS from SELF-INTEREST. Jonalyn talks about binge/abstinence culture and Dale gives one of the most powerful explanations of how God is the most self-interested Person in the universe. Listen to the end for some real vulnerability from this husband-wife team.
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Get your Stories of Jesus for the Modern Family at dalefincher.com.
If you have a topic of question for us or interest in Dale speaking at your event, email hello@dalefincher.com or hello@jonalynfincher.com
Find Dale and Jonalyn online:
Jonalyn on Instagram: @jonalyn_fincher
Dale on Instagram: @ChartingLiberty
Jonalyn’s original paintings and blog: jonalynfincher.com
Dale’s website: dalefincher.com
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Music credit: https://uppbeat.io/t/simon-folwar/happy-places. License code: J4YSC25BAPNBURAX
Subscribe to Back Porch with Dale and Jonalyn on Soundwise



Friday Jul 21, 2023
Ep 63: Artificial Intelligence with special guest
Friday Jul 21, 2023
Friday Jul 21, 2023
The Finchers bring their thirteen-year-old son--gamer, YouTuber, and 3-D designer--to discuss this hot topic. Is artificial intelligence really intelligent? And what can it offer us?
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Get your Stories of Jesus for the Modern Family at dalefincher.com.
If you have a topic of question for us or interest in Dale speaking at your event, email hello@dalefincher.com or hello@jonalynfincher.com
Find Dale and Jonalyn online:
Jonalyn on Instagram: @jonalyn_fincher
Dale on Instagram: @ChartingLiberty
Jonalyn’s original paintings and blog: jonalynfincher.com
Dale’s website: dalefincher.com
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Music credit: https://uppbeat.io/t/simon-folwar/happy-places. License code: J4YSC25BAPNBURAX
Subscribe to Back Porch with Dale and Jonalyn on Soundwise



Friday Jul 14, 2023
Ep 62: Am I Judgmental?
Friday Jul 14, 2023
Friday Jul 14, 2023
What does it mean to be "judgmental"? How can we keep from this smug attitude of superiority? Dale and Jonalyn parse how many different ways this word is used, both positive and negative. You'll find this helpful for your conversations. Favorite line: "Calling someone judgmental allows the immoral person to take the moral high ground."
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Get your Stories of Jesus for the Modern Family at dalefincher.com.
If you have a topic of question for us or interest in Dale speaking at your event, email hello@dalefincher.com or hello@jonalynfincher.com
Find Dale and Jonalyn online:
Jonalyn on Instagram: @jonalyn_fincher
Dale on Instagram: @ChartingLiberty
Jonalyn’s original paintings and blog: jonalynfincher.com
Dale’s website: dalefincher.com
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Music credit: https://uppbeat.io/t/simon-folwar/happy-places. License code: J4YSC25BAPNBURAX
Subscribe to Back Porch with Dale and Jonalyn on Soundwise



Friday Jul 07, 2023
Ep 61: Teaching the Bible to Your Kids
Friday Jul 07, 2023
Friday Jul 07, 2023
The Bible does not present itself as a religious book or a therapeutic text. It presents itself as knowledge. Find Dale’s four accessible steps to bring Bible study back into your home. If you love God, you can do this!
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Get your Stories of Jesus for the Modern Family at dalefincher.com.
If you have a topic of question for us or interest in Dale speaking at your event, email hello@dalefincher.com or hello@jonalynfincher.com
Find Dale and Jonalyn online:
Jonalyn on Instagram: @jonalyn_fincher
Dale on Instagram: @ChartingLiberty
Jonalyn’s original paintings and blog: jonalynfincher.com
Dale’s website: dalefincher.com
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Music credit: https://uppbeat.io/t/simon-folwar/happy-places. License code: J4YSC25BAPNBURAX
Subscribe to Back Porch with Dale and Jonalyn on Soundwise



Friday Jun 30, 2023
Ep 60: Evangelism - The Art of Inviting Others into Your Life
Friday Jun 30, 2023
Friday Jun 30, 2023
The Finchers explain why “evangelism” has become the toilet cleaning chore for the average Christian who want walk in God's freedom. They discuss the book they've written on this topic: "Coffee Shop Conversations: Making the Most of Spiritual Small Talk." They share horrible stories of their own failures and why “evangelism” needs to be refreshed for most Christians and re-centered on the Biblical story. Favorite line: “Shame and blame conversions have no staying power.”
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Get your Stories of Jesus for the Modern Family at dalefincher.com.
If you have a topic of question for us or interest in Dale speaking at your event, email hello@dalefincher.com or hello@jonalynfincher.com
Find Dale and Jonalyn online:
Jonalyn on Instagram: @jonalyn_fincher
Dale on Instagram: @ChartingLiberty
Jonalyn’s original paintings and blog: jonalynfincher.com
Dale’s website: dalefincher.com
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Music credit: https://uppbeat.io/t/simon-folwar/happy-places. License code: J4YSC25BAPNBURAX
Subscribe to Back Porch with Dale and Jonalyn on Soundwise
